It's hard as a parent to see our children's hopes dashed and the disappointment fill their eyes. From canceled playdates, to moving friends, to loss of loved ones, to even rained out events - it's never easy, but it is part of life.
I've tried to let them have their disappointments and griefs, but also try to teach them to find a brightness, help them to put their trust in Him, even when it's tough. Things don't always go our way, but He knows where they are going and we can count on His love.
Yesterday, my long awaited plans to go to Sam's Club (yes, this is an excitement for me...don't judge :-), came crashing down around me in the form of a rare and unexpected rain storm in our dry little city.
My kids sensed my disappointment (maybe the loud sighs and groans gave them an inkling of a hint). Instead of jumping for joy for having once again dodged the trip, those sweeties rubbed my back. Suddenly, I heard little voices repeating my words back to me.
"Maybe God had a different plan."
"Think of a good thing - now you can rest on the couch, and watch me play this game."
"At least it's good that we're getting rain."
"It's okay. We love you!"
I love that they have learned not only how to deal with let downs, but also how to comfort someone else when they see it needed. Thanks be to God for these little blessings who so often are the ones teaching and reminding me to keep my eyes on Him.
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